“If your child wants to know more, they will ask you.”
Read moreThe Trouble with Bribes
“Happiness seems to be the right end goal, but thriving children feel and often express many emotions.”
Read moreI can't let you hurt me - setting loving limits with young children about physical safety
“Many, if not all, children go through some period in their young lives where they get angry and physically lash out at their parents…”
Read moreEmotionally Supportive Tools: Special Time/Laughter/Vigorous play/and Empathy Books
“Just like tears, laughter is also an opportunity for stress release. Silliness together is often a great way to reduce…”
Read moreHow do I know when to just listen with love versus problem-solve?
“If you have noticed an unusual string of upsets over a variety of situations, your child may just need a shoulder to cry it out on or some time to scream…”
Read moreWhy do our children have such flooded, intense, upset or angry moments?
“When we lose our own cool and raise our voices, these moments are ripe with possibilities for connection, understanding and repair.”
Read more“Me First!” When Young Children are Worried About Winning, Being First or Being Best
“As members of a competitive society, parents and teachers often feel that learning to win is an important lesson so children will grow to achieve…”
Read moreWar and Gun Play: Understanding the Influences in Children's Play, Responding Responsively
“When we are able to engage in meaningful dialogue with children about what they are playing or talking about, we are helping them build their own voice and their own social responsibility.”
Read moreParenting article: Viewing Children's Emotions Through a Connection Lens
“Emotional flooding in young children is natural, normal, and to be expected.”
Read moreDirector's Thoughts: Heather's Personal Reflections about Parenting
“I was contemplating how best to approach my seven year old about cleaning up her room, and this came to me…”
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